What if, after all this time of believing the general opposite, we determined that women's style of thinking is predominantly left-brained (logical, linear, rational) and men's is predominantly right-brained (magical, creative, feeling)? Could that explain why women are happy if they "know" what is going to happen next and why men are happy if they can just feel good in the moment? Maybe that's why women need to make absolutely certain abut what they, and most everyone else, are going to do. And why men are often content just to be. It is possibly another of those natural differences. Not something to be shamed or changed; rather, something to be accepted and enjoyed.